Tag: adoption trip

We were supposed to travel to Dalian today, but our new young man ran off.  We’re still not sure what it was all about (the proximate cause may have been a disagreement he and I had about luggage–which seems rather silly in retrospect), but we spent a few frantic minutes this morning looking for him, and then most of the day in the hotel room waiting for either the police to find him or him to show up someplace.  The latter finally happened around seven pm.  He made it back to the orphanage.  We’re so relieved.  We’ll get to talk to him tomorrow.

The orphanage says he’s sorry & still wants to be adopted, so there’s at least some chance we can work this out.  We certainly hope so.  If you think of it, please remember to keep us in your thoughts.

Anyway, no fun pictures today–except this little bit of a cultural phenomenon that we found in the Walmart here when we stopped in for an after-supper diet coke and ice cream run. (The English writing is a bit small, but if you zoom in, you may be able to see that the top row of chips are grilled squid flavor, while the lower two are barbecue chicken flavor.)  This kind of thing is why I so prize potato-flavored potato chips.

J has run away.  It’s a big city, so it could be very hard to find him. (Wednesday, July 13, morning)

 

—Update.  July 13 evening–J returned to the orphanage, so he’s safe.  We’ll go there to talk about what he’s thinking and really wants in the morning.

Today after finishing up the paperwork at the registration office and then took a longish bus ride out into the suburb where J’s orphanage is.  It is a beautiful new facility.

J was hoping to meet up with a number of his friends, but it turned out most were still in school, and we were too early to see them.  This was a big disappointment.  He made up for not seeing them by texting them continuously as soon as he had access to his tablet.

It was interesting to see the place where he grew up and to meet some of his teachers and friends. We also ate lunch in his cafeteria, so saw a bit of what ordinary food has been like for him at the orphanage.

Our first couple of days in China this time were a whirlwind of touring.  The kids think the Forbidden City is huge & hot (they’re not wrong).  K enjoyed climbing the Great Wall; B would just as soon never see another stair.  They both enjoy the all-you-can-eat buffet breakfasts (K for the fruit, B for the dumplings–jiaozi & baozi & xiaomai & red-bean-paste-filled mantou. In fact, both of my kids like red bean paste.  I guess I’m the only one in the family who doesn’t.)

Today we added child number three (or number one, depending on how you want to count it) to our family.  Officially the paperwork goes live for the Chinese side of things tomorrow, and for the US side of things in a week and a half.

J has grown, but not quite as much as I feared.  He’s still shorter than I am–for the moment.  He seems uncomfortable around us, and likes to spend as much time as possible talking to his friends in the orphanage, but he signed the paperwork without any kind of hesitation.  He’s withdrawn and nervous, but not quite so much as the last time he was with us.  Still, it looks like it’s going to take a while for us all to get used to each other.  I hope we manage to have a few good times in the week ahead of us–that might help everybody relax a bit.